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Why losing my job in my late 40s was the best thing that ever happened to me (conclusion)
Where was I? Oh, yes. Unemployed, pushing 50 and living in a state (Michigan) devastated by the recession. Yeah. Good times. And…I was single. I know that married people face crises and challenges, too, but at least they face them … Continue reading
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Why losing my job in my late 40s was the best thing that ever happened to me, Part Two
Where was I? Oh, yes. That’s right. Unemployed, pushing 50, and aged out of the career in which I’d been working for decades (radio). I had what I thought were marketable skills – written and verbal communication skills, for instance … Continue reading
Posted in being single, feminist, Lifestyle, single life, Women's Issues
Tagged #futurespinster, #newoldmaid, #oldmaid, #spinster, #spinsterlife, #thenewoldmaid, job search, jobless, unemployment
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Why losing my job in my late 40s was the best thing that ever happened to me, Part One
I can clearly remember being called into the station owner’s office after a show and being told that the station was letting me go as a cost-cutting measure. It felt like I’d been kicked in the stomach. Yes, I knew … Continue reading
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Tagged #newoldmaid, #oldmaid, #spinster, #spinsterlife, #thenewoldmaid
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Turns out I was the one who changed
When I started writing my book about women who have never been married, I was hoping to change other people’s attitudes about us. What I didn’t realize was how much the book would change my attitude. I’d always felt like … Continue reading
A good excuse to shave my legs
So I wrote last time that I was going to a singles dance. I mentioned that my expectations were low, that I thought there’d be a lot more women than men, blah, blah, blah. The upshot was: I did NOT … Continue reading
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Mixed emotions about singles mixers
Are events specifically for singles worth going to? Being a perpetually single woman, that’s a question I’ve been trying to answer for a long time. I’ll try to answer it again on Friday night, when two friends and I will head … Continue reading
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Tagged #futurespinster, #oldmaid, #spinster, #spinsterlife, #thenewoldmaid
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What if?
I have a writer’s “what if” mind. That can be a wonderfully rich, imaginative and entertaining thing. It can also be hell, especially for a single woman. I’ll explain. One of the foundations of fiction is that a story begins … Continue reading
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Tagged #futurespinster, #oldmaid, #spinster, #spinsterlife, #thenewoldmaid
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Traveling solo
It seemed like a good idea at the time I made the arrangements. Now, with my (solo) trip to Florida drawing near, I’m not so sure. Every winter, I swear that I’m going to get away from it all, at … Continue reading
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Tagged #futurespinster, #newoldmaid, #oldmaid, #spinster, #spinsterlife, #thenewoldmaid
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Every felt like a ‘third wheel’?
In a society where the pressure to pair off is relentless, where do single women fit in? Or do they? Are there social events that they’re deliberately left out of, because they are not part of a couple? In talking … Continue reading
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When you don’t have the Mommy gene
One of the common themes that’s emerged among the always single* women that I’ve talked to for my book-in-progress, “The New Old Maid,” is that many of them had no desire to have children. “I never wanted kids,” said Celia. … Continue reading
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